Autism
is incurable, right? People say it's a lifelong
condition. An irreversible brain disorder. A tragedy.
According to many, anyone who says otherwise is
promoting "false hope." There's just one
problem with this point of view: it's not true.
Autism does not have to be a life sentence. And
there is no such thing as "false hope."
How do I know? My entire life is the product
of what many call "false hope." At 18
months old, I was diagnosed with autism. In fact,
my case was considered severe, with no speech
and a tested I.Q. of less than 30. I would spend
my days endlessly engaged in repetitive behaviors
such as spinning plates, rocking, and flapping
my hands in front of my face. I never looked at
others nor did I give the slightest response to
the calls and requests of the people around me.
I was "in my own world."
As I'm sure you can imagine, my parents were
told many things about what my future would hold.
No change was to be expected in my development.
I would never speak, never have friends, never
go to school, never learn to communicate with
others in any meaningful way. The professionals
recommended eventual institutionalization.
My parents, however, decided to make a complete
departure from traditional methods of "treatment."
They designed and implemented an innovative and
groundbreaking program that was both home-based
and child-centered: The Son-Rise Program®.
After working with me for over three years, my
parents achieved what the experts had deemed "impossible":
my complete recovery from autism with no trace
of my former condition. After living a normal
childhood, then earning a degree in Biomedical
Ethics from Brown University, I went on to direct
an educational center for school-aged children.
I now lecture internationally, as well as being
an author, teacher, and the Director of Global
Outreach for the Autism Treatment Center of America.

Unfortunately, many parents today are still not
given full information about all of theoptions
available to them. However, I would want parents
to know that they do not have to face the lack
of support that my parents faced, nor do they
have to settle for a prognosis of hopelessness.
After my recovery, my father, Barry Neil Kaufman,
wrote a book relating our story entitled Son-Rise:
The Miracle Continues (later the subject of an
NBC television movie). Then, in 1983, my parents
founded what is now known as The Autism Treatment
Center of America, a division of The Option Institute,
a non-profit, charitable organization, located
in Sheffield, Massachusetts. Our center is dedicated
to helping parents and professionals caring for
children with autism, PDD, autism spectrum disorders,
and other related developmental challenges. We
teach a system of treatment and education designed
to help families and caregivers enable their children
to dramatically improve in all areas of learning,
development, communication, and skill acquisition.
Having worked with thousands of people worldwide,
we continue to achieve results that have forever
changed the face of autism and other developmental
disorders.
Currently, we offer an introductory program called
The Son-Rise Program Start-Up, which provides
parents and professionals with all of the tools
they need to design, implement, and maintain a
child-centered Son-Rise Program. This training
course is offered several times a year on our
campus in Massachusetts, and we will also be sending
a team of teachers to London from 13 to 17 January
2002, to teach the full Start-Up program at that
time.
The foundation of the program rests upon this
idea: the children show us the way in, and then
we show them the way out. In this way, we establish
a mutual connection and relationship, which is
the platform for all education and growth. Then,
we can teach our children everything we want them
to learn with exponentially greater success, speed,
and ease.
One specific technique derived from this principle
is joining. This means that when a child is doing
a particular repetitive, exclusive behavior (i.e.
stacking blocks, flapping hands, etc.), we do
not try to stop the child from doing this. On
the contrary, we do this activity with him! We
find that children consistently look at and interact
more with people when they are sincerely joined
in their repetitive activities. This unlocks the
door to the child's world.
Another key technique is to facilitate skill
acquisition by capitalizing on each child's own
motivation. Since, for these children, traditional
learning modalities will rarely be appealing,
we customize the presentation of curriculum to
match the child's highest areas of motivation.
This way, we use the particular skills and interests
our child already has to maximize learning globally.
I could discuss other principles and strategies,
but, instead, I will end where I began: with one
all-important note. People have accused us of
advocating "false hope," asserting that
we cannot guarantee that all children will turn
out like me. This is true. No one can guarantee
that. But does this mean that parents should be
discouraged from hoping for their children? Does
that mean that all of these children should be
given life sentences? Who decided that a life
sentence was better than an open door and an outstretched
hand?
The very idea of "false hope" means
that there are times when hoping can be bad, wrong,
or inappropriate. Because I have seen over and
over again, in my life and in the lives of countless
others, that hoping only helps and never hurts,
I do not believe that hope can ever be "false."
When I was diagnosed with severe autism, my parents
decided to see possibilities where others saw
none, and it was this perspective that enabled
my complete recovery. Yes, it is true that we
cannot know in advance what any given child will
accomplish. But we must not decide in advance
all of the things a child will never achieve.
You should never have to apologize for giving
your child a chance. Hope leads to action, and
without action, none of these children can be
helped.
For more information on The Son-Rise Program®,
please call 1-800-714-2779 or visit our website
at www.son-rise.org.
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